My cousin Traci is a transgender girl who has been ostracized by many of her immediate family members.
One day, my 95-year-old great grandma and I were shopping at the pharmacy. We were in the card aisle and she said, "I forgot to get Traci a card for her birthday!"
She walked right over to the "female cards" and picked out the pinkest, frilliest card possible. She handed it to me and said, "Well that's perfect! I think she'll love it."
My great grandma is so much more understanding than Traci's parents are, and this interaction made me tear up a bit.
I love my great grandma.